2. Be happy
Your dog likes to see you happy, and scientific developments have proved this. A study in Vienna revealed that dogs can tell the difference between human emotions. Using a touch screen and reward system, one group of dogs was shown two pictures of a woman's face - one happy and one angry. To make it even trickier, the pictures were side by side and showed only the top half of the face, so the mouth and teeth were not seen. If the dog touched the screen with the happy face they received a reward. The second group was rewarded with treats for picking out the angry face. Scientists found that although both groups could differentiate between the happy and sad faces, the dogs who were rewarded for touching the happy face were significantly faster, leading to the conclusion that dogs dislike approaching angry people.
3. There's always a reason
We may never fully understand why our dogs behave in certain ways, and although there could be a genetic element, their behaviour is probably caused by something that has happened in the past. For this reason, be patient and never lose your temper with your dog, as it can sometimes prove impossible to work out what has caused him to become anxious or take a dislike to a particular situation or person.
4. Not naughty, just stressed
When a dog barks if you ask him to do something, or suddenly sits down and scratches, or starts to lick himself, don't take it personally as he's probably not choosing to ignore you - he's simply trying to communicate that he's feeling confused or stressed. If a dog doesn't understand what he is being asked, he may feel anxious and will try and relieve the stress with displacement behaviours, much as humans do when they bite their nails.
5. Have more fun
Top of the wish list for any dog would probably be for their owner to spend more time with them. Walking together can be fun, but so can just sitting together, stroking him and being quiet for a while, learning more about his personality. Treat him to a variety of different toys and treats and see which ones he enjoys the most. Does he prefer chasing a ball, playing tuggy, or working out where the noise comes from in a squeaky toy?
6. Friends forever
Who else can you tell all your secrets to, and complain to incessantly about the people who annoy you, safe in the knowledge that your confidante will never judge you or tell someone else? Your dog would like you to know that he will happily sit with you and become the keeper of all your secrets and dreams, and his love for you will remain total and unconditional. You can return all that love by showing him how much you care and making him a priority in your life.
7. Learn the language
Dogs and humans speak different languages, but dogs are incredibly clever at reading our body language and understanding the tone of our voices. You will make your dog happy if you do some research to try to understand all the nuances of his body language so you can work out what he is trying to tell you about how he is feeling. For example, if he wags his tail when meeting a new dog, it may not be because he's happy. The position of his tail and the way he is wagging it can be a good indication of whether he is feeling confident or a little bit worried.
8. Dogs are not babies
All dogs, whether they are cute toy breeds or working types, would like to remind their owners that they really are dogs, not babies. As great as it may be to give your dog a cuddle now and again - and who doesn't love to do that? - it is still important to remember that dogs should never be viewed as a cool fashion accessory or a child surrogate. All dogs need plenty of exercise, stimulation, and free time to enjoy natural canine activities such as sniffing and exploring their environment.
9. Be a good listener
If only dogs could speak, we would be able to sort out so many of their problems! Unfortunately they can't, and when something hurts, they can't just point to where the pain is. Instead they may refuse to eat, sleep more, or become a bit grouchy with other dogs or even people. A dog who suddenly dislikes being groomed or doesn't want to play may well be in pain, so take notice of what he is telling you and book an appointment for him at your vet's for a check-up.
10. Take comfort
Sadly, none of our dogs can remain with us forever, but when the time comes to say goodbye, try to be brave and let them go before they are in too much pain or discomfort. The good news is that memories of all the lovely times you have spent together will be a great comfort to you and your family in the future. Once the grief has eased, start to look ahead and perhaps consider taking on another dog who can fill the void. Your dog would like you to know that every dog teaches his owner important lessons, and he will not want you to remain sad for too long, as he will faithfully remain in your memories and your heart.